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How much do you pay to work?

Do you pay to work? We saw last time that it costs a lot to go to work. The major expenses of working that we discussed are transportation and childcare. In 2019 the IRS estimated the cost of driving at 58 cents per mile (source). This includes gas, depreciation of car, and maintenance. According to ChildCare Aware of America, “The average cost of center-based daycare in the United States is $11,896 per year ($991 a month) for infants and $10,158 per year ($847 a month) for toddlers.” So let’s look at two scenarios where working may actually earn you a negative paycheck.

Delivery Drivers

What if you are a delivery driver for a pizza place or fast food joint? Most of them drive their own cars for deliveries. Legally employers are required to compensate drivers for their mileage, but they’re not obligated to pay delivery drivers the full 58 cents/mile that would make them break even. Most businesses use the IRS’s standard rate, but restaurants often do not. On top of that, delivery drivers are often paid below minimum wage because they get tips. Depending on how unscrupulous your employer is, this can mean drivers end up getting negative pay.

Say a driver makes the minimum tip wage of $2.13/hour. They drive about 100 miles a day and their employer compensates them $0.30/miles (For reference Dominoes paid $0.25/mile in 2017). After an 8-hour shift they walk out with $47.04. That comes out to $5.88/hour. Less than minimum wage! Since the cost of driving your car is $0.58/mile it ended up costing them $58 to work an 8-hour shift, for a net loss of $10.96! That’s paying to work!

$2.13/hour * 8 hours = $17.04
$0.30/miles * 100 miles = $30
$17.04 + $30.00 - $58.00 = -$10.96

Of course that’s assuming you get paid below minimum wage and don’t get tipped, which is illegal. Your employer has to compensate you if you end up making below the federal minimum wage. Let’s run this calculation again with the delivery driver making minimum wage of $7.25/hour. After an 8-hour shift and driving compensation they would walk away with $88. It still cost them $58 to work that shift, so his net gain would be only $30! $30 for an 8-hour shift is not a very good salary, $3.75/hour.

$7.25/hour * 8 hours = $58.00
$0.30/miles * 100 miles = $30
$58.00 + $30.00 - $58.00 = $30.00

Again these calculations are making assumptions like the fact that the IRS estimated 58 cents per mile applies to delivery drivers. If you’ve ever seen a pizza guy’s car, he’s probably not spending 58 cents/mile to drive it (look forward to a post on how to lower cost of driving), but driving is almost always more expensive than we’re led to believe. All this to say if you’re driving for your job make sure you look into the true costs and compensation.

Even Dubai orders pizza
The economy has been hard on all of us

Working Mothers

The cost of commuting is huge, and if you have to drive a long distance to work it might make sense to look for a house closer to work. But even more stupidly expensive than driving is childcare. Childcare is so expensive that for families with two working parents in many cases it would be more worthwhile for one parent to stay home and take care of the kids than it would be for both parents to work outside the home. Let’s look at the numbers again, basing it off of what we spoke about in the last article.

16 miles/trip * 2 trips/day * $0.58/mile = $18.56/day
$18.56/day * 5days/week * 50 weeks/year = $4,640/year
Cost of driving: $4,640/year per parent

$10,158/year * 2 kids = $20,316/year
Cost of childcare for 2 kids: $20,316/year

$33/day * 3 days/week * 50 weeks/year = $5,000/year
Cost of eating out 3 times week because of lack of time to cook dinner: $5,000/year

Final total: $4,640 + $4,640 + $20,316 + $5,000 = $34,956/year
Total cost of working: $34,956/year

This comes out to $34,596/year for both parents to work outside the home. Now if we let one parent stay home to take care of kids, they will save $29,956 /year just by not working! If we account for taxes, we find that making anything less than $39,941 means that this family is actually losing money by having both parents work.

According to Catalyst women in America earned a median salary of $47,299 in 2019. That means in a typical dual-income family the mom spends almost 85% of her salary just going to work. I don’t know about you, I like my job, but I would never pay to work it. But that’s what people are doing! Working moms are paying to work.

working moms pay to work
“Working Mom” is redundant

I know a family with two kids and both parents work. The wife’s commute is 26 miles each way. They spend about $1200/month in childcare. Her salary is somewhere around $35,000. At 58 cents/mile her commute costs $7,540/year. Childcare costs $14,400/year and let’s just use the $5,000/year figure for eating out. That comes out to $26,940. She pays 77% of her paycheck just to keep going to work. Her net take home pay is the equivalent of $4.03/hour. That’s only $0.28/hour more than the pizza delivery guy. A skilled worker making a real salary of less than minimum wage.

So… at the risk of sounding like a bigot, my recommendation is for working moms to stay home and take care of their kids. Not only is it a very high and rewarding calling, it also makes much more sense financially.

Why not have the dad stay home? At the risk of sounding even more like a bigot, men make more money on average than women do. If that’s what he wants to do and it works for them, fine, but the odds are the best fiscal decision will be for the mom to stay home.

Conclusion

Again, these are just examples using typical statistics and averages. Like always I want you to apply these principles to your own situations and determine what’s best for you. And what’s best may not always be the best choice money-wise.

What do you think? Did you have to drive for a part-time job? Are you a dual-income family? Do you have kids? Am I a total bigot? Let us know in the comments below!

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The Cost of Working

You go to work to get paid, but how much are you paying just to go to work? The average American drives 16 miles each way to work. That comes out to be about an hour in the car per day. And over 3 million people travel at least 50 miles each way to work, for 100 miles a day! 23.4 percent of children under the age of five are in some form of organized childcare. When you start to add up the costs of your commute, childcare, food, and even just wasted time, the cost of working can come as a real shock!

Cost of Commuting

30 minutes is considered a reasonable commute. This flawed thinking about commuting to work might be the biggest thing keeping Americans from retirement. In this article I will be speaking about commutes in the terms of driving yourself, since public transit is virtually non-existent or just plain won’t work for you in the sprawling cities of the Midwest.

In 2019 the IRS estimated the cost of driving at 58 cents per mile (source). This includes gas, depreciation of car, and maintenance. Gas prices were great in 2020 with OPEC flooding supply and the pandemic driving demand to near zero. But recently they have skyrocketed at an increase of almost 100%. This combined with the fact that the average new car now costs over $40,000, and the fact that cars are increasingly difficult to maintain and repair, suggests that this cost of driving will continue to increase.

Let’s look at cost of commuting using this estimate. The average American drives 16 miles each way to work so:

16 miles * 2 * $0.58 = $18.56

It costs nearly $20 a day just to drive to work! If you multiply that by 5 days/week and 50 weeks/year (assuming 2 weeks of vacation to make the math easier) that comes out to $4,640/year. Over $4,600 a year just to drive to work! That’s more than the cost of a family of 4 going to Disneyworld!

The 2020 Bureau of Labor Statistics found that of married couple families with children 59.8% had both spouses working. Almost 60% of families have two working parents. So multiply $4,640 by 2 for a cost of $9,280.

at 58 cents per mile, this isn't very lucrative
Commuting is the worst

Cost of Wasted Time

That’s not including the value of the time spent driving to work. One hour/day times 5 days/week times 50 weeks/year equals 250 hours of driving per year. If you make $25/hour that’s the equivalent of $6,250 wasted (if working more hours made you more money). Note: You may not make $25/hour or you may be on salary so more time doesn’t necessarily equal more money so because of that I won’t be figuring this into the total amount. I know that you may not necessarily be able to make money if you had that “wasted” hour back. But still, your time isn’t free and an extra hour of time every day could be used for more productive things than sitting in a car.

Cost of Childcare

Since 60% of families have two working parents, another cost is, of course, childcare. Childcare is stupidly expensive and early child care is even worse. According to the Economic Policy Institute, infant care is more expensive than college.

In Kansas, where I live, The EPI found that on average the cost of infant care in Kansas is $11,201 a year. For a 4-year-old childcare costs $7,951 per year. Compare that to the average cost of in-state public college tuition in Kansas: $7,387 per year. According to ChildCare Aware of America, “The average cost of center-based daycare in the United States is $11,896 per year ($991 a month) for infants and $10,158 per year ($847 a month) for toddlers.”

The average American family has two kids with the Midwest being on the higher end of that average so if we multiply the cost of childcare ($10,158) by 2 we get $20,316. So if we add that together with the driving expense we get $29,596. Almost $30,000/year spent on working. That’s more than the salary of 40% of the country!

Cost of Food

More than half of Americans skip breakfast once a week and nearly ¼ skip breakfast every day because they don’t have enough time before work. This is unhealthy and can lead to health problems down the road. Also after a long day of work and an hour of commuting the last thing you want to do it spend an hour preparing dinner for your family. A good dinner, even one that not a Thanksgiving feast, can take up to two hours to prepare. No one who’s just spent ten hours away from home wants to then spend 1-2 hours slaving over a hot stove.

The solution to that, unfortunately, is that most Americans go out to eat a lot. According to the CDC 36% of Adult Americans eat fast food on a given day. Further 56% eat out at least 2 to 3 times per week, 10% said they eat out 4 to 6 times a week, and 6% said they eat out every day. It is not healthy to eat fast food several times a day and if you opt for a healthier option sit-down restaurant it comes with a hefty price tag.

Eating out is one aspect of the cost of working
It’s like eating money

Even a trip to a cheap restaurant like McDonald’s will set a family of 4 back $30. At 3 times per week that’s almost $100 spent on eating out because both parents are working. That’s another $5,000/year.

And that’s only the monetary costs of working

The monetary costs of working are exorbitant, but those aren’t the only costs. Other costs include time, health, freedom, peace of mind etc. Remember we’re not figuring the cost of time into that number. If this couple were paid hourly and working more hours meant more money, they would be missing out on thousands more in lost wages. But that lost time also hurts in other ways.

As we already mentioned, the more than half of Americans eat out 2 to 3 times per week, and skip breakfast at least once a week. Not only can this be costly monetarily, it is costly for your health. Fast food is not good for your body no matter how you slice it. And skipping a meal can really affect how your metabolism works, potentially leading to weight gain, headaches, and lethargy (source).

Our discussion of commutes didn’t even mention the carbon dioxide put out by cars. According to the EPA the average passenger vehicle emits about 411 grams of CO2 per mile. At 32 miles per commute per person, that equates to 6,576 kg of CO2 per year.

Conclusion

Work is necessary for life. You have to make money to clothe, house, and feed yourself and your family. Nobody is arguing that, at least not on this blog. But as always, you need to be making informed decisions. When you think about the job you want to take, whether or not both parents should work, and what kind of car to buy to help with the cost of commute, all of this needs to factor in when determining your cost of working.

What do you think? Did we make you feel like working isn’t worth it and we should all live in a van down by the river? Did we miss anything? Let us know in the comments below.

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Stealth Wealth – How to Live Free

Stealthy Wealthy

I’m sure you’ve heard stories of people who lived a simple frugal life then after their death it’s discovered that they’ve managed to save millions of dollars. In 2018 there was a story published about Alan Naiman, a state social worker who had lived a very frugal life. He bought his clothes at the grocery store and patched up his shoes with duct tape. But when he died at the age of 63 his family was shocked to discover that he had left $11 million to various children’s charities. Alan Naiman practiced stealth wealth and it made him rich.

Stealth wealth is the practice of hiding your wealth from friends and family. You probably have met people who are quite wealthy and you had no idea. They’re the kind of people who drive normal cars, live in average sized houses, and whose clothes you wouldn’t give a second glance. Though it seems counterintuitive, most people who drive luxury cars aren’t rich. They look rich because of how they parade around, but their lifestyle often doesn’t coincide with the amount of money they have. In many cases that’s the reason they aren’t rich. On the other hand, many people who have a great deal of wealth drive average cars and live in middle class neighborhoods. While celebrities like to flaunt their wealth by buying million dollar mansions and super cars, savvy rich folks keep the majority of the fortunes a secret. This allows them to fly under the radar and live the lifestyle they prefer.

Examples of Stealth Wealth

  • The 50 year old who drives a 20 year old Camry to work everyday, but has a million dollars in his 401(k).
  • The family who has lived in the same house for the past 30 years even though they could afford to move into a bigger one.
  • The wife who shops at Goodwill even though she can afford Old Navy.

Why do people flaunt their wealth?

Everyone buys things that they think will make them happy, but a lot of big purchases are made to show off. That new house, that new car, those new clothes or jewelry, while maybe not intentionally, often times are purchased in an attempt to get others to think highly of them. People buy a new car and they imagine their coworkers and peers seeing them drive up to work in it. Or they may buy new clothes hoping to get complimented on how they look. They want people’s approval and respect, and they think this is an easy way to get it.

The problem with this isn’t that making a big purchases is wrong, it’s that impressing others has no long-term value. Seeking validation from others isn’t a worthwhile pursuit because it doesn’t benefit you beyond some temporary satisfaction. Living your life based off of what you hope other people think will lead to a roller coaster of a life, where your feelings are constantly in the hands of another. Don’t give that kind of power to anyone!

We buy things we don’t need with money we don’t have to impress people we don’t like.

Dave Ramsey

Instead of buying things to impress people, buy with purpose. You don’t need to hoard money or never spend it on something that will make you happy, but don’t live in order to show off. Living your life in order seek the approval of other is burdensome. It’s super freeing to live without the fear of what other may think.

Good Reasons for Practicing Stealth Wealth

I think it is morally good to not be a braggart. Keeping our wealth to yourself keeps you humble, because no one is thinking too highly of you or treating you special just because you’re rich. Driving an old, reliable car and wearing last season’s clothing are good ways to make sure you keep things that way.

The best reason to be stealthy about how much money you have is that you are free. You don’t have to keep up with the Joneses. If you practice stealth wealth, you are free to avoid keeping up with the Joneses. When no one knows you are wealthy, there’s no pressure to behave like a wealthy person. There are so many celebrities who spend like crazy and live lavish lifestyles only because it is expected of them. You don’t have to buy a nice car. If you want to eat frozen meals for dinner you can. Being able to be normal is freeing!

A 1993 Camry is a great way to practice stealth wealth.
We had a 1994 Camry that lasted 23 years. It was great.

Stealth wealth also makes you rich. Aside from being super manly, concealing your wealth makes you richer. Like Alan Naiman, being frugal when you don’t have to be allows you to keep saving. He could easily afford new shoes, but he kept fixing his old ones in order to save money. He could have bought fancy clothes, but he didn’t. Not caring what others thought of him allowed him to amass a fortune of $11 million dollars which he donated to charity.

Bad Reasons to Practice Stealth Wealth

Don’t hide your wealth just so you don’t have to help other people. Be a decent human being. That’s it, that’s all I have.

Don’t let lifestyle creep get the best of you

When our salaries rise it’s natural to splurge more often. It seems reasonable to buy higher quality things. To an extent that’s good. After you finish college and get a real job, you can stop eating ramen noodles and instead buy better groceries. But that doesn’t mean you should start going out to eat every night. Even if you make a good wage, you can still buy good quality off-brand groceries. Maybe you want to upgrade from your neighbor’s hand-me-downs. You can still buy clothes at Target instead of the GAP. Living below your means, which is a core principle of stealth wealth, is going to be best for you in the long run.

What do you think? Do you practice stealth wealth? Let us know in the comments below!

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Why Do People Go to the Gym?

Gary works out!

In 2019 (when people could actually go to gyms) 64.2 million Americans (20%) belonged to a health or fitness club (source). The average monthly cost of a gym membership was $37.71, which of course doesn’t include initiation and enrollment fees (which are stupidly expensive). $35 billion was spent on gym memberships in 2019 alone! That’s more than twice (2.43) the amount spent on the last 4 presidential elections combined! so why do people go to the gym?

When surveyed, members usually give seven reasons for joining a fitness club:

  1. Improve Health
  2. Lose Weight
  3. Look Better
  4. Feel Better
  5. Get/Stay in Shape
  6. Tone Up
  7. Socialize

All of those are good goals to strive for. Losing weight and getting healthier are paramount for high quality of life. I read an article in JAMA once that said:

In this cohort study of 122 007 consecutive patients undergoing exercise treadmill testing, cardiorespiratory fitness was inversely associated with all-cause mortality without an observed upper limit of benefit.

Kyle Mandsager, MD; Serge Harb, MD; Paul Cremer, MD

According to the Journal of the American Medical Association there is no limit to the health benefits of exercising. If you want to live longer and enjoy a better quality of life, you need to exercise.

So are those good reasons to join a gym?

No! I don’t think those are good reasons to join a gym. Look at this picture of the Fitness Connection parking lot. Notice something strange? It’s full of cars. These people got in their car, drove 15 minutes to the gym to exercise for a half-hour, then they drove 15 minutes to go home.

A fitness center parking lot full of cars
So many cars!

They could have saved time by biking 15 minutes to the gym then immediately biking home. More importantly they would also save $40/month. Exercise is great. Everyone should exercise. But you don’t need a gym membership to exercise. Look again at the reasons given for joining a gym:

  1. Improve Health
  2. Lose Weight
  3. Look Better
  4. Feel Better
  5. Get/Stay in Shape
  6. Tone Up
  7. Socialize

All these (with the possible exception of number seven) can be done at home or on a bike trail. The majority of fitness equipment are treadmills, ellipticals, exercise bikes, or weights. None of these require going to a fitness center. Treadmills are just fake walking and walking is free. Ellipticals are just fake running or climbing stairs. Pretty much everyone has access to stairs, either in their homes or around their city. Exercise bikes are just fake bicycles, literally. New bikes are stupidly expensive, but you can find a good bicycle on Craigslist for like $50. Weights are just fake hauling rocks. Rocks are free, but if you want to be more refined then home dumbbells are pretty cheap.

Instead of driving to a fitness center to work out indoors with a bunch of other smelly people, go outside and exercise. The scenery is nicer, the air is fresher, and the Vitamin D is free and plentiful. Walking or biking along a scenic bike trail is much more fun than walking on a treadmill or using an exercise bike in a gym. It’s also better for your physical and mental health.

Most people stop by the gym for an hour before or after work. Instead of that you could save time by biking to work. That way you kill three birds with one stone. You get your exercise in for the day, you don’t have to pay for a gym membership, and you save money on gas! During an internship I biked to work every day, and it helped me feel great for the rest of the day. When I was in grad school I biked to campus so Courtney could have the car. This allowed us to only need one car when were first married, which was a great cost savings on top of the health benefits. Sadly my current job is right off the highway so riding a bicycle would be pretty dangerous. (Though that doesn’t stop some of my coworkers.)

Just save time by biking to the gym then immediately bike home.

The only partially valid reason given is also the least important to those surveyed. Less than 1% of respondents surveyed said socializing was the reason they joined a gym. To me that seems like the best reason to join a gym. The ability to work out with another person makes it much more fun and gives you that extra push to meet your goals. Having another person keeping you accountable may be the motivation you need to get to the gym regularly or to lose a few extra pounds. But even that can be done outside of a fitness center. Call up a friend and make a schedule to go running together.

Courtney and I make an effort to get out and walk along our bike trail several days a week. It’s a fun thing we can do together that helps us stay in shape. We used to go biking together but since having a baby we haven’t gotten to do that. We do however get out the stroller and take him for walks. It’s just nice to get fresh air.

What is a good reason pay for gym membership?

I’m not trying to say that all gyms are dumb and you never pay to exercise. Sometimes joining a gym is the right move for you. I already mentioned the social aspect of gym memberships. A gym can be a community of people working together and encouraging each other in their fitness journey. Don’t underestimate the power that community brings. But if your typical fitness center experience is simply to walk on a treadmill with earbuds in, then you’re better off walking for free outside.

Another good reason for joining a gym is if it gives you something you can’t do otherwise. For example if you enjoy racquetball you may want to join a racquetball gym. Free racquetball courts aren’t necessarily easy to come by, and that way you’ll always have somewhere to play and someone to play with. You may have outgrown the dumbbells you have at home, and may not have space for all the expensive equipment that’s the next step. My wife and I go to a rock climbing gym near our house. I enjoy rock climbing and there’s no natural alternative for it in Kansas. We don’t have much for mountains in the Midwest. The membership is stupidly expensive so instead we opt to get punch passes whenever they go on sale, but the point is we do this because it’s fun, getting ripped and swole is just an added bonus.

There are good reasons to join a gym, but if your reason is just to “improve health” there are several better and cheaper ways to do that. Go for a morning jog, bike to work, eat a salad for lunch. These are just a few better options for getting/staying in shape, but I think the problem runs deeper than just a bad fix for your health. This is endemic of American’s flawed thinking that the best way to solve a problem is to throw money at it.

How to solve a math problem? Throw money at it.
Works for Congress!

This is the same issue I have with Fitbits or Slim4Life or other consumer products that purport to help you get in shape if you buy them. For some people these can be great tools to help, but that’s all they are: tools. For most people out there it’s just companies exploiting that thought that if I only buy this thing I’ll get healthier. If I sign up for this gym I’ll get in shape. If I throw money at this problem it’ll go away.

FIRE is about taking control of your finances so that you don’t have to be a sucker in a job for the rest of your life, but the philosophy spills over into other parts of life as well. Instead of becoming a sucker for some big corporation, take your health into your own hands and just work towards a healthier life. And as a bonus it’ll make you richer too.

Shia Labeouf - Just Do It!

What do you think? Do you belong to a gym, or is the great outdoors your fitness center? Let us know in the comments below!